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Rumble in the ‘Ville

By eliashib | Published: December 10, 2009
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  • reidklos

    Tryingtoby,
    I longed learned that talking doesn't do it. There's something about the written word that makes people stop and take notice. That's why that blow up was so ineffective. All it did was send emotions raging. Once I sat down and wrote out my feelings, I was able to see what was going on as well as my dad. I was able to write, look it over, process it, rewrite, or add to or clarify, put a better flow, calm down, encourage…whatever I needed or wanted I was able to do in the letter (http://reidklos.com/bespoke-tailored/raising-da…). After I sent it, I left it there.
    You shouldn't feel like an idiot because your feelings are your feelings. That's the thing, we toss the word love around for our family and friends and then our actions say something entirely different. And until you get those rotten emotions out into the open then they will continue to fester in your heart. That's how it worked for me. It's not a cure all, but it does help. Oh, and after you write the letter you may decide to not even send it, just being able to see your thoughts mapped out on paper may be enough.
    Thanks for commenting. I'll take you to the Wailing Wall.

  • tyringtoby

    WOOOOOOOW! ok here's the thing. I would not could not eat eggs and ham like that sam. I wish I could. I have so many unresolved issues with my family that i think with myself I have resolved. I tried talking it out with them but it seems as if they don't comprehend the severity of my feelings. So in my heart i have forgiven. Have i forgiven in my heart? I say that I have. However, one little reminder of the past sends me into flashback mode and i cringe. Resentment! Sometimes I wonder if the love I show for them is real. What? i only say that because I sometimes. . . well I don't know what I feel they feel about me. I know they care. You know Now that I am writing this I feel like an idiot. I know my family loves me. I just don't love me. I still wish I could talk to them freely. uhmm…

  • reidklos

    Tryingtoby,
    I longed learned that talking doesn't do it. There's something about the written word that makes people stop and take notice. That's why that blow up was so ineffective. All it did was send emotions raging. Once I sat down and wrote out my feelings, I was able to see what was going on as well as my dad. I was able to write, look it over, process it, rewrite, or add to or clarify, put a better flow, calm down, encourage…whatever I needed or wanted I was able to do in the letter (http://reidklos.com/bespoke-tailored/raising-da…). After I sent it, I left it there.
    You shouldn't feel like an idiot because your feelings are your feelings. That's the thing, we toss the word love around for our family and friends and then our actions say something entirely different. And until you get those rotten emotions out into the open then they will continue to fester in your heart. That's how it worked for me. It's not a cure all, but it does help. Oh, and after you write the letter you may decide to not even send it, just being able to see your thoughts mapped out on paper may be enough.
    Thanks for commenting. I'll take you to the Wailing Wall.

  • tyringtoby

    WOOOOOOOW! ok here's the thing. I would not could not eat eggs and ham like that sam. I wish I could. I have so many unresolved issues with my family that i think with myself I have resolved. I tried talking it out with them but it seems as if they don't comprehend the severity of my feelings. So in my heart i have forgiven. Have i forgiven in my heart? I say that I have. However, one little reminder of the past sends me into flashback mode and i cringe. Resentment! Sometimes I wonder if the love I show for them is real. What? i only say that because I sometimes. . . well I don't know what I feel they feel about me. I know they care. You know Now that I am writing this I feel like an idiot. I know my family loves me. I just don't love me. I still wish I could talk to them freely. uhmm…

  • reidklos

    W.H.Y.
    Thanks for sharing the angst and the questions. Although we hate to hear that someone else was abused and taken advantage of, yet there is still a level of solace, a type of comraderie in knowing that you aren't alone.

    I guess the age old questions are always: “God, why did you?” or “God, where were you?”

    It seems hard to believe that a God of love would let children get the short end of the stick. But such is sin. I always hated to hear, “God allowed that because He knew you could handle it and give Him the glory.” Now, I see that it's true. Nothing that happens to us can ever trump what God's intitial plan for us is. We actually hold the key to that. We can accept His providence or not.

    I'm elated that you were blessed with a husband that takes the time out to listen to your pain and applies the healing balm of love on it. Stay encouraged. Your wounds will heal if you allow God to heal them. He's the only One that knows you in, out, backwards, forwards, and presently. He can make you whole. Ask Him for what you need.

  • W.H.Y.

    I always say to myself that we can not chose our family… God chose them for us. But sometimes our friends act more loving than our own family. I question the negativity of one human being to another. Why is that? why am I in so much pain and have so much hate in my heart towards them? Why would God allow me to go through this type of pain. I admit I was an angry BLACK WOMAN. Why would God allow my father to take a piece of me that's supposed to be shared with my husband or my spouse let me go on to write or that special someone that’s in my life. As the old people say what doesn’t hurt you makes you stronger and you always supposed to hold your head up strong and keep walking forward. Why can’t I just go to a corner and cry my eyes out or cuddle with my teddy bear? I was raped not only physically but also mentally. After all that stuff happened to me when I was a child all the cover up they did, but now they wonder why I don’t want to come around. The family didn’t help me when I needed the help all they did was turn their back and act like it never happened. I was a child and I lost all of my childhood. I blame everyone of them for allowing that to happen and didn’t stop it. Not only them I also blamed myself.

    Now nine years later I am finally understanding who I am and realize what I want to do with my life. It was time for me to let go, breathe the fresh air and exhale the negativity that’s been controlling me all of these years. I wasn’t just holding in pain I was holding anger actually it was more then just anger it was rage. I had to realize I can’t change what happen to me. My past is a part of me, It made me the woman that I am today! I am stronger then I was before, I have blossom into a wonderful beautiful flower with the help and support of my wonderful husband who stuck through it with me through thick and thin

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    *Before I formed you in the womb I knew [and] approved of you [as My chosen instrument], and before you were born I separated and set you apart, consecrating you; [and] I appointed you as a prophet to the nations -The Lord God to Jeremiah-

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    -Many have excused themselves from rendering their gifts to the service of Christ because others were possessed of superior endowments and advantages. The opinion has prevailed that only those who are especially talented are required to consecrate their abilities to the service of God. It has come to be understood by many that talents are given to only a certain favored class to the exclusion of others who of course are not called upon to share in the toils or the rewards. But it is not so represented in the parable. When the master of the house called his servants, he gave to every man his work.

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    -You are not to wait for great occasions or to expect extraordinary abilities before you go to work for God. You need not have a thought of what the world will think of you. If your daily life is a testimony to the purity and sincerity of your faith, and others are convinced that you desire to benefit them, your efforts will not be wholly lost.

    -The humblest and poorest of the disciples of Jesus can be a blessing to others. They may not realize that they are doing any special good, but by their unconscious influence they may start waves of blessing that will widen and deepen, and the blessed results they may never know until the day of final reward. They do not feel or know that they are doing anything great. They are not required to weary themselves with anxiety about success. They have only to go forward quietly, doing faithfully the work that God's providence assigns, and their life will not be in vain. Their own souls will be growing more and more into the likeness of Christ; they are workers together with God in this life and are thus fitting for the higher work and the unshadowed joy of the life to come.

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